MB Engagement Ring Manual

Think of this manual as the pre-flight instructions for buying an engagement ring.

Getting engaged and spending the rest of your lives together is a trip! We’ll be taking off momentarily, so get comfortable and be sure to keep an open mind. Chat through the questions below to avoid any turbulence as you embark on the journey of a lifetime and get ready to find the perfect ring!

Popping the Question

The moment you’ve all been waiting for!

  1. Should the proposal be in front of a crowd or just us?
  2. After the proposal, should we immediately share our engagement with the world or enjoy it, just the two of us, for a little bit?

What Ring Dreams Are Made Of

Let’s talk all about the details! 

  1. Have you seen a ring that you absolutely love?
  2. Do you have a favorite diamond shape?
  3. Does your dream ring have a diamond as a center stone, or does it have a colored stone?
  4. Do you have a metal color preference?
  5. Do you know your ring size?

The Funds 

  1. What do you think is a reasonable amount of money to spend on an engagement ring? 

Did you know one of the leading causes of relationship issues is money problems? Go ahead and set yourselves up for success by having an open and honest conversation about your engagement ring budget upfront.  

  1. Do you think it’s reasonable for both people in the relationship to contribute to the engagement ring budget?
  2. How would you feel about financing an engagement ring?

In the past, it was considered standard for a man to spend three months’ salary on an engagement ring, but we’re here to tell you this is a myth! How much you should spend on an engagement ring varies by the couple and depends on your unique finances and preferences. 

Do’s and Don’ts

Just to make sure you get it right!

  1. DO clearly tell your partner what you want if you have a very specific engagement ring in mind.
  2. DO let your partner know if you want to be involved in picking out the ring
  3. DON’T bring your mom to pick out their engagement ring! (Just Kidding! Sort of.) If you ask anyone to help you pick out a ring, DO make sure it’s someone who knows the love of your life in and out.
  4. Don’t be afraid to ask for help!

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